A Thought...

Checked this out in the dictionary... Can't believe that this is the first time that I looked up the meaning of "love"...

love ( P ) Pronunciation Key (lv)n.
A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
An intense emotional attachment, as for a pet or treasured object.

If love is a feeling of intense desire and attraction or a deep, tender, ineffable feeling toward a person... can one control oneself against or stop from loving someone? If it is incapable of being expressed in words, then how would we know if the feeling we felt is love and not something else? If it is an intense emotional attachment, how would we know that it is not merely a sense of possessiveness or obsession?

I suppose this is an ancient question... "问世间情为何物"? What is love? How was it able to lead to the downfall of dynasties and man (or for that matter woman)? Why would it lead to one being so oblivious to reality and to the world around him/her? Are we all capable of loving all the time? Will we ever stop loving?

A Thought...

By the time we come round to our starting point, things would have changed... people would have changed and moved on too... As much as we hope and wish that at any time, we are able to find the people we know and love where they were the last time... they often will not be... somehow the relationship would have changed... feelings may have changed even if one tries so hard not to.

It is like when two people meet, their paths crossed at that moment... time stopped... yet when their paths diverged... who knows if they will ever meet again.

Thumb? Dump?

Overhead my colleague commenting to another “Wah, you really made good use of your thumb drive”.

My Thumb Drive is a Dump Drive. I dump all sorts of stuff in my “thum thum”. At any time anyone wants to transfer any files, it is my reliable “thumb”… but it is getting full…. Got to do housekeeping and trash some “dump” soon.

Coughing

The coughing has started yet again. It has been quiet for so long that it has been forgotten. Today, it has been felt... this is the beginning.. wonder how long it will last again this time.

Restless...

Yup, that basically sums up my state of mind today... not to mention the splitting headache to add on to the symphony.

Surprisingly, space can be soothing to the mind and calms the soul. I stood staring at the space ahead of me for a good 15 min and it did just that... kind of ease that headache too.... Got to breathe..

Death

We always assume that no matter how busy our lives are... people we met will always be there. We can always return to the place and catch up from where we left off. Sometimes, we take for granted the good times we shared and ... will always be there... because we are all so young... he's still so young....

Yet he died of a heart attack at the age of 34. How can this be life? Isn't one suppose to die only at old age? Death... you took another one...

Quick Quote

Pots - Judge it not by what it contains... but what it has to contain... No one wants a leaking pot.

Delete Again

Was trying to send a sms and for some reason it just couldn't send. So I decided to cleanup my outbox... try to remove the clutter... "Delete All" I pressed... and I lost all my messages in my Inbox too... Sigh... what is wrong with me? Just last Saturday I realised that I had deleted one of my document accidentally (and it wasn't in my Recycling Bin) and had to spend my Saturday night retyping it all over again.

I am either not thinking or not seeing... Sigh... No cleaning for this week! I don't know what else I will DELETE away! Haha.. excellent excuse :)

缘

小强走着走着，发现自己无意间走到了图书馆。 他不晓得什么带他来到这里，不过他好渴望到一个能让他清静的地方。 希望在书中能找到自己的方向和宁静。

小麦跟往常一样，忙忙碌碌， 不是为了三餐温饱，就是到处寻找灵感。

小雁为了填补心灵的空虚，想在这悠闲的下午，找些灵感激发她再次的拿起画笔。 就这样走到了百胜楼。

三个人，三个朋友。在这悠闲的星期六下午，都不约而同的到了百胜楼。 可惜都没碰上。

三个人在同一个地方，差别就在那一瞬间。

这世界说大不大，说小又不小，要是无缘，说什么都遇不上。