Today I thought... I cannot foolhardily jump onto another random boat that comes into my harbour. I got to have somewhat a "list", kind of like what I really want to see in my soulmate.
Hmmm...
1. Must love coffee. I really do not wish to anymore explain why a good cuppa is so important to me on a weekend. That a 3-in-1 is simply and never will be good enough.
2. Must understand the importance of comfort food aka Food for My Soul. Being able to empathize with my relationship with my food, can avoid alot of disputes and unnecessary accusations. I don't binge unless it's a crisis. If I need a plate of carbonara to ease the day's difficulties, let me have my carbonara in peace and all will be well.
3. He preferably should have a hobby that he's passionate about. In other words, he shouldn't be just passionate about me.
4. Ideally, he is creative and has some interest in art / music. Somehow that outlet provides a whole different perspective to person that Maths and Science can't.
5. I would like if he's intellectually stimulating and has the curiosity of a child.
6. He must have a healthy relationship with money. This aspect is kind of complicated to explain... I think it's easy for anyone of us to be obsessed with money and think that we can never have enough.
7. Must be kind. I believe this is self explanatory.
8. Must have courage. Have the courage to act on what's necessary. The courage to be different, to believe and to venture into the unknown.
9. Preferably to have travelled and love to travel more.
10. We must have a emotional connection.
This list is by no means exhaustive nor do the items have equal importance. Just an idea for me to ponder on the things that I want :)